This Early rebellion is a cry from the child to the parents and to everyone else that they do not want to be “just a kid this essentially means that the adolescence wants to shed their identity as a child and become more grown up and have more trust and responsibility, and many other things along this line. Generally they're screaming "I will not accept being called or treated like a child anymore."
This is the earliest stage of adolescent rebellion, where children become disobedient and sometimes hurtful towards their parents. However most professionals like Dr.Pickhardt, say not to take it personally it’s just a way for the child to break away from his/her childhood.
Experts agree to use a tactic that I personally find very sneaky and annoying. They recommend "Nagging" your child with questions, so that they turn their feelings into words not actions. Ask questions such as "What do you want to do then," or other similar questions that ask how you can better the way you treat your child in the way they like. This should silence the quarrels and encourage them to use words instead of acting out.
Nagging a child with questons will just make them stop talking .
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